What Nobody Told Me About Sex.

SEX is not wrong, as a matter of fact it is excellent, and a blessing to the married but it is dangerous and a destiny paralyzer outside of marriage and to the unmarried.

Against popular believe, I tell you that sex is not wrong, but very excellent and a beautiful thing. And I know many people are surprised by what I just said now but this is 100% correct.
And am not surprised about that because I have discovered that most times we try to be even more spiritual than God.

We Christians always wave off discussions about sex and that is why most of us fall into the trap of the devil.

Sex was not initiated by the devil but by God Almighty so it is to our loss if we do not have a right information about sex.

It is only the timing of sex that can be wrong and destroy your life and destiny, but sex itself is a gift from God that should only be enjoyed in marriage.
Now I am saying this to reveal a divine truth to everyone of us today, it isn't God that doesn't want you to enjoy sex but the devil...

Just think upon it.

Sex is a big part of God's plan for marriage but the devil wants you to do it now and miss the plans of God for it for your marriage, the devil has always been the enemy here, he makes you believe God doesn't want you to have sex, while in reality, God initiated sex.

If God initiated sex, then sex ought to be good, but like everything else if done outside the scope of God's timing for it is disastrous.

Sex was made for marriage and marriage for sex

Whenever you have sex outside of marriage, you abuse God's divine purpose for such a beautiful gift to mankind and defile yourself and fall short of his glory.

         IS IT WRONG TO HAVE SEXUAL DESIRES?

Sexual desires is not a sin, and should not be viewed as one.

Sex was initiated by God and so our sexual desires is also given unto us by God, but many people do not have an understanding of this.

Yes, be you a pastor, Evangelist, believer, unbeliever, prayer coordinator in your youth group, whether you admit to it openly or not, we all have this feelings.

Many do not understand this and so I find this as a struggle for Christian youths that are on fire.

Most people are in a place where there cannot differentiate between sexual desires and lust and I believe its so important that we understand this.

I have heard many people on fire for God say sexual desire is a sin, but that isn't true.

Lust is desiring something that is not yours. Lust is looking at another human being more as a piece of meat that you can just devour rather than a creation of God.

Whereas , Sexual desire is healthy and natural. God created you with them, but does this give us a license to commit sexual sins? Oh no.

But this is not something to deny. And God doesn't expect us to suppress them, He expects you to control them. It must be controlled by you, and not it controlling you.

And we all must learn to control our body to the Glory of God, and I pray for that grace upon everyone reading this now in the name of Jesus.

    SEX IS MORE SPIRITUAL THAN IT IS PHYSICAL

Sex was initiated by God, and God is spirit so anything sanctioned by God is more spiritual than its physical. But many of us are so blind to see past the physical pleasure.

God created sex for marriage, a couple are not fully married until the marriage is consummated(always by sex).

God said the man shall leave his home and be joined to a woman and there will become one. What do you think makes a husband and a wife one?, you think because there stay in the same room? Hell no!.

There become one by SEX. Sex is not just a physical pleasure, its a spiritual principle for joining a man and a woman to become ONE.

You see, that's the issue, this principle was created for married people, but isn't excused when unmarried people decide to walk that road.
And by so doing this have made so many people inherit bad luck,demons and curses they could easily have avoided.

The Bible refers to Mary magdalene at one time as the prostitute whom Jesus casted 7 demons from. How do you suppose she became so rich in demons, because she was binded with men in sex and inherited those demons, and you could imagine the case of all those men that slept with her.

I will like to spice my conviction with the birth of Jesus, to the reality that this curses, and demons are transferred by sex.

God is the initiator of this principle and we all know that the reason Jesus was not born by a man was because he didn't want him to be conceived in the sin of Adam, you can calculate how many generation that is, to tell you how powerful sex is.

WHAT DOES SEX MEAN TO OUR SOCIETY TODAY?

Our society today has the worst value for this heavenly gift, there were times where even though people did not really understand the spiritual implication of sex, the moral standard of that time made people remain as virgins but not unto us.

Our society speak a very different language now when it comes to sex, you are regarded as a fool for not having tasted the sweet sensation of sex.

The truth is this, our society might have changed but God's standard never fail.

So beloved, everyone that has made a commitment not to have sex until after marriage, and those that are still virgins, don't let anyone make you feel inferior because of this decision you took.

There were times when people had sex because of the pleasure of it but now many just do it for the fun of it, just sleeping with people aimlessly, people there don't even know, having targets of people there want to sleep with for a particular time frame.

This is by far the lowest way to live.

Most Ladies now in our society now use sex as a means of buying and selling, give me this and I will sleep with you, haba isn't this the most visionless and smallest way to live.

You sleep with a boy in order to keep him? Of you will be said the parable, why buy the whole cow when you can get the milk for free.

Please I beg you all that are involved in such way of life to desist from it, and repent.
We all have a role to play in building a better tomorrow for our children and we can all start by returning back to our core moral values.

       EFFECT OF SEX OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE

SEX outside marriage puts God in a place in your life where He cannot help you.

The bible records in the book of 1 Cor 6:18, that every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but whoever sins sexually sins against their own body.

Now this is where the connection is now, the verse 13 of this very chapter says our body was created for the Lord and the Lord for our body. When we engage in sexual relation, not only is this a sin against our body but against God, because we are not ours, but the temple of the Lord.

God is holy and we are his temple but this is the only sin that can drive God out of our lives because this sins happen inside the temple. God cannot behold iniquity and so must remain dormant.
This is why in our Christian faith, there is no sin that leaves a believer empty like sexual sin.

After king David slept with Bathsheba, regardless of how much he prayed to God to spare that boys life, it was to no avail. Because he already put God in a place where God could not help him.

How about Reuben who slept with his father's wife, and lost his place in life, destiny and generation.

Can we leave out Samson who through lust, couldn't fulfill his potentials of becoming a long standing watchman for Israel?

My brothers and sisters out there reading this now, I want us to understand that there is so much wickedness in the world now to be in a place where God cannot help us.

We must all turn to the light of God's help that we might truly live unstoppable as God wants us to.

PRAYER OF CONFESSION

Lord Jesus, I have erred against you in this way, I am very sorry and I ask for your forgiveness. Bring me back to you, cleanse me of every unrighteousness that plagues my life and give me the grace to walk according to your will for my life. Amen!!!

God bless you!

Bro Asogwa Samuel, Is an Evangelist;

He's  writing from Nsukka, Nigeria